Thank you for reaching out to Pamela’s team.
Pamela’s work has grown and evolved significantly over the years, and this website serves as the central home for her writing, adoptee advocacy, projects, and creative work. Because Pamela receives a high volume of messages across multiple platforms, she is unable to personally respond to every email, social media message, or request. We appreciate your understanding and encourage you to explore the appropriate platform below before reaching out.
For Pamela’s personal adoptee writing, essays, commentary, and ongoing work, visit The Real Adoptee Moxie on Substack. This is the primary home for her writing about her lived experience as an adoptee and her perspectives on adoption, identity, separation trauma, grief, healing, family, personal evolution, and life beyond the adoption narrative.
Pamela is also setting chapters free from her memoir, Born in the Shadows, Living in the Light: My Adoptee Epiphanies – The Fight of My Life. Her Memoir Index serves as the central home for the chapters that have been released publicly and will continue to be updated as new chapters are shared.
For Adoptee Remembrance Day – October 30th, please visit the official Adoptee Remembrance Day Substack. This is now the primary home for Pamela’s Adoptee Remembrance Day work, including ADOPTEE VOICES, the Missing Adoptee Project, the Murdered Adoptee Project, remembrance stories, resources, contributor opportunities, announcements, and the ongoing work of keeping a light on for the adoptees who aren’t here.
Adoptees interested in contributing their stories to Adoptee Remembrance Day should visit the Adoptee Remembrance Day Substack for current contributor information and submission opportunities.
Please understand that Pamela and her team are unable to provide personal advice, professional services, referrals, crisis support, or individual adoption guidance through email or social media messages.
For media inquiries, collaborations, questions regarding Pamela’s writing or projects, or other legitimate business inquiries, please use the contact form below.
We deeply appreciate everyone who continues to read, follow, share, and support Pamela’s work. Thank you for respecting her time and boundaries while continuing to support the writing, advocacy, remembrance work, and adoptee-centered projects she is committed to bringing into the world.
— Pamela’s Team
